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Monday, October 18, 2010

Labels VS Stereotypes

Hey everyone,
For this week's vlog, I decided I would talk a little bit about my take on labels and stereotypes. I think Monday night will be the official day for new videos, so mark your calenders and make sure you are following me on Facebook so that you can receive updates. Hope you enjoy...



Sunday, October 17, 2010

The Best Song of the Year

Hey everyone,
While I was doing my daily YouTubing, I came across this video of a song done for the Trevor Project.  I've watched it like 10 times now and it gives me chills everytime.  I figured I would share it with you all.  Hope you enjoy it.  Oh, and I will be uploading my new video tomorrow using the internet at the school... I guess that's what I get for living out in the sticks.



Thursday, October 14, 2010

M@tt + Life = Love

Hey everyone,
I just thought I would give you guys a quick update regarding my life. It's absolutely fantastic. Since I have come out I have found so much support in a world that I thought was only full of evil. With the help of my blog and my YouTube channel, I'm networking, I'm making new friends and I'm loving every minute of it. All of my past relationships with friends and family seem so much better... so much stronger.

I feel this overwhelming amount of love from the outside world that in no way can be measured. I am excited about the progress of my life and I'm ready to embrace it's ups and downs and twists and turns rather than running from them. My pessimism is turning into optimism. At this point, I think I could lock myself in a room by myself for any amount of time and never feel one ounce of sadness... To those of you who know me, you know what a big deal that is.

So, I just wanted to say thank you to everyone. I want to tell you all that I love you from the bottom of my heart. Your support has helped to shape me into the person that I am today and I will be forever in your debt. I only hope that one day I will be able to help you all as much as you have helped me. <3

So much love to you all,
XOXO




Tuesday, October 12, 2010

Don't Hate Me.... ***UPDATED WITH PART II***

My ensemble for National Coming Out Day!
Hey everyone,
A few days ago I decided that I was going to make a video on National Coming Out Day and do a coming out video all in one.  I shot the video, edited it, and then figured out that I had to split it into two parts.  So, I got the first part uploaded and I wanted to get the second part uploaded before I made this post... but I don't really know how long that's going to take.

This is like my 15th attempt at uploading part two, and it's just not working... either my connection drops or the YouTube site is down for maintenance... blah blah.  So, I decided to go ahead and post the first part of the vlog and then once I finally get the second half uploaded I'll post that as well.

Oh, and this would be a great time to give you guys the link to my YouTube channel so that you can follow that as well if you wish...--> Click here! 

So here's part one, a little late I know, but I'm doing the best I can with my garbage internet... :(




***AH-HA! PART 2 IS FINALLY UPLOADED... SORRY IT TOOK SO LONG...





Friday, October 8, 2010

National Coming Out Day : Monday, October 11th

Hey everyone,
I have just found out that this Monday (October 11th) is National Coming Out Day!  Honestly, I am shocked that I am just finding this out.  To me, this would mean that many people aren't making a big deal out of this.  But, this is a HUGE DEAL!  It is so important for our homosexual population to express who they are and even more important, I believe, for our heterosexual friends to show their support for us.

So to all my fabulous gay people out there... come Monday I expect to see you representing us.  I encourage you to wear gay pride symbols (triangles, lambdas, rainbows) on your clothing and jewelery.  To those of you who have been open for a while, don't forget that by walking around proudly displaying who you are, you may help those who are running from it.  It might even save somebody's life.

And to all my equally fabulous heteros... show us your support.  Whether you take a stand for us through something as bold as your clothing or even with something as simple as an informative status update, it will be greatly appreciated.  It is not only important to show us your support, but to stand up against those who are against us.  It is because of you wonderful straight people and your willingness to accept a lifestyle that is completely opposite from your own that allow us to be ourselves, to not be ashamed, and to again see the beauty that this world has to offer.

Keep loving yourself... Keep loving each other...
Muah for now <3

Wednesday, October 6, 2010

My Life-Changing Decison

Hey everyone,
Well, I did it... I changed my major!  I've been thinking about it the past few days and couldn't quite make up my mind.  Previously, I was majoring in accounting.  While this is something that I would be very good at, I felt like I would get burnt out on it once I made it out into the workforce.  Nothing like a 9-5 full of repetition...

So I started thinking about what else I could do that would be fun, and different, and exciting!  After a few days of getting nowhere I finally figured it out.  The answer has been sitting in front of me for a week.  I've been having such a great time creating videos for my YouTube channel, and updating and promoting my blog... why not go to school for something similar?

I am now majoring in Digital Media with a specialization in Web Design.  I'm super excited!  I was a little worried because my whole family is so supportive of the accounting thing, but I think this is because they knew I was so adamant about it.  But after trying to preach to others to be exactly who they are and to live their lives in a way to make themselves    happy, I decided to take my own advice.  I can't wait to finish up this semester so that I can start my new classes.  I haven't been this excited about something in a long time and if you aren't happy for me, that's okay, because I am!

Muah for now <3

1st Vlog - Own Yourself

Hey everyone,
Well, I finally got around to making my first video for the blog.  This is the FIRST video I've ever done, so be kind.  I'm a terrible public speaker.

So without further ado...



Let me know what you think.
Muah for now <3

Tuesday, October 5, 2010

Tragedy Strikes... Yet Again.

Hello everyone,
This morning I woke up to find a page in my inbox sent to me by my good friend Laura.  I had already heard this story on the news a few days back, but wasn't aware of all the details, so thanks for that Laura :)

Basically, there was been another gay related suicide, this time ending in Tyler Clementi taking his own life by jumping off the George Washington Bridge after his roommate and one of the roommate's friends broadcasted Clementi having sex with another man live over the internet on two separate occasions.  You can read the full story here : Suicide Follows A Secret Webcast and/or watch the video below for more details.



This is definitely a reality check to many, including myself.  While homosexuality is said to be becoming more accepted, it becomes apparent that whatever advances we have made just aren't enough.  There are so many people out there that are being tormented day in and day out.  There are so many people out there who are afraid to be who they are.  This isn't okay!

I was just having this conversation the other night with my slightly homophobic grandmother, who in the same breath condemns me for my sexuality and claims to be for equal rights.  I sometimes wonder what the world would be like if the roles were reversed.  What if homosexuality was the "norm" and heterosexuals were the outcasts.  I am convinced that things would be different because to quote one of my favorite movies, "we mean you no harm".--Straight Jacket

I, of course, am not saying that all straight people torment gay people, please don't misunderstand me there.  The majority of my friends are straight people, and they are wonderful, but I feel that I may be one of the lucky ones.  I haven't really had to endure any hate crimes to speak of other than a spoonful of scrutiny.  My own mother gave me shaving tips when I came out!

The most important thing that I can express to everyone this morning is this... If you know a homosexual, open or closeted, be there for them.  Talk to them.  You don't have to agree with their lifestyle.  I just ask that you accept it.  If you don't show compassion for these people, they may be gone before you know it.

The simple gesture of reaching out a hand to those who are struggling can help prevent these tragedies such as with Tyler Clementi.

I would also like to dedicate the following song to those of you who feel scared, alone, sad, hurt, hopeless and over it.



Live, laugh, love yourself, and love others.  Life is too short not to.

Muah for now <3

Friday, October 1, 2010

A Public Service Announcement

Hello everyone,
Today I am coming to you with my wonderful heterosexual friends in mind that have little ones at home. I had plans to meet up with a few of my friends tonight at a local sports bar to have a few drinks and catch up on all the gossip. These plans got changed however due to one couple's babysitter backing out on them... and for rather selfish reasons at that.

Mommy needs a break!
People, do me a favor... If you have a friend that is lacking a social life left due to their decision to procreate, take their kid every once in a while. I'm sure we all can spare one evening out of our fabulous lives now and then to create a little happiness for someone else.

There are so many people out there today that are only in it for themselves. I myself have been accused of it, and have tried desperately to make changes in myself to show others that I am a compassionate individual that is sensitive to other peoples needs. I suggest that many people do the same.

There are so many that say, "Well she's the one who got pregnant... let her deal with it." People don't realize that these are the type of people who need us the most. They feel alone and cut off from the world. Many regret their choices however they continue doing the responsible thing. They stay home and care for the life they created. I think this is quite admirable and I feel they deserve a break here and there.  What do you think?

MUAH for now... <3